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March 08, 2025

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"Like getting angry at a driver who is following me too closely, even though it is unlikely that I'm in any danger from him (such drivers are usually men, in my experience). I'm reacting as natural selection intended when someone threatens my life. Except in modern times, our lives rarely are truly threatened by other people. They just irritate us."

I can relate to this example, as not long ago a driver was sort of tailgating and blew his horn at me. I reacted by going into road rage mode,, even pulling over to see if he wanted to try conclusions. He kept on going and nothing came of it. But I was extremely angry, with an anger that persisted for most of the day. I finally cooled down when I began to question my reaction to what had actually happened: Someone blew their horn at me, and I was ready to fight and die over it. Over someone blowing their horn.

It made me think of a story related to Neem Karoli, Ram Dass' guru. Neem Karoli was telling a story about the meaning behind the Hindu name of one of the Western devotees, and one of them got extremely upset at the story, believing that it portended murder, and ran away. Neem Karoli was flabbergasted at this, and wondered aloud "Why does he think that way"?

I've found this a useful mantra of sorts. "Why do I think this way"? Applied to gross reactions to life's events, the question usually produces an "I should be this afraid or angry, because i....i....," and find there really was no valid reason for my emotional reaction. It was just a story. As Buddhist teacher Dipa Ma said, Buddhism is finding out that the mind is just a bunch of stories we tell ourselves.

Side note: I have to say I've experienced women tailgaiting just as much as men. And one of my first Buddhist teachers was a woman who was authorized as a Zen Master. And she was a habitual tailgater.

Sticking with the tailgating analogy, and on the other side of this topic of discerning truth and reality, it bears mentioning that tailgating isn't merely an annoyance but a crime, a traffic violation. And tailgating is deemed a crime because it's been proven to be dangerous to not only the person doing it but to every other driver nearby. Some concern over safety is a legit fear. And so I believe tailgating isn't a casus beli, but nor is it a behavior to be passively endured. These days I try to heed the Dhammapada's dictum that aggression is never remedied by aggression, as well as the words of a friend who said "I just pull over and let them by."

Natural selection ia taken care by science
Evolution of what? Is defined not by scientific inventions but spiritual jumps
In to loops od wandering thoughts.
Escaping these loops is distributed every where
Point is to see

“Early on in his book, page 6 to be precise, Wright -- who has written a book about evolutionary psychology, The Moral Animal -- talks about why pleasure always fades (a basic tenet of Buddhism) from the perspective of evolution.”


Makes sense, all of that. It does add up, completely.


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…Some further thoughts:


Coming from that perspective, without a doubt “spirituality”, at least when taken to its full conclusion, ends up becoming an evolutionary dead end, or at the very least a disadvantage in terms of evolution, no?!


Here’s how I’d answer that question, that I posed myself just now: More than one answer, and perhaps all of them might apply, to an extent:


1. If that were so, then that is no bad thing! That is kind of the point of this thinking. That evolution isn’t concerned with our happiness. And if we, in following our own happiness, end up going where evolution does not want us to go, and actually end up at an evolutionary dead end, well then, that’s no bad thing, necessarily, is it? Why must we necessarily keep on keeping on, and perpetuating humanity for ever and ever, if that is achieved only by perpetuating strife and disharmony and unhappiness for us as individuals?

2. But, in any case, it probably won’t actually come to that, will it? I’m guessing only a very few can actually go all the way, as the Buddha did. I guess the vast majority will, at best, only go some of the way, just enough to temper dysfunctionality somewhat, and but not enough to end up negating the propagation-of-genes thing.

3. If we didn’t end up tempering this dysfunctionality of all-out strife, then, given our complex social organization, of us humans, and particularly given our technology, we’ll likely end up simply obliterating ourselves! So that, this tempering of the dysfunctionality (#2 above) is probably what might end up making the difference between extinction and continuity. So that, indirectly, this tempering of the blind push of evolutionary pressures, might indirectly end up actually furthering the cause of evolution! (So that, in that sense, some individual Buddha voluntarily relinquishing the drives that might further his own genes, is in effect no different than some individual sacrificing themselves for the community, as ants and bees are known to do, either directly, or else indirectly by becoming impotent “drones” or whatever, even as the queen bee takes care of the propagation part: and thus, indirectly, actually end up aiding propagation and survival, and therefore evolution, for humanity as a whole.)


…Yeah. Kind of adds up, all of that, no?

Two examples come to mind, of people that started out in near-identical situations, but that ended up following diametrically opposite courses, perhaps the most striking contrast that one can think of, across time and across geography: On one hand, the Buddha; and on the other hand, Chengiz Khan. (Apparently he's the most prolific progenitor that we know of. Apparently near 10% of all of Mongolia was fathered by him, and --- wait for it --- a half percentage point of actually the entire world!)

Like I said, two completely diametrically opposite examples of what "success" might amount to. (And yes, there are certainly some who do, quite literally and without any trace of irony, look at the Chengiz Khan model of success as an ideal, and one worth emulating as best one can.)

Thanks Brian for reminding me of Wright's book which I bought in 2021. Have just retrieved my copy from the loft and re-read the first few pages, so will have a fresh look at it.


What is life but a thin membrane stretched over a river of ecstasy. - Jurgen Ziewe

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