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A new narcissism project. The quest for the glorious me continueth. New author, new book, new meditation technique. This time we'll get it right.

I'm still meditating on the incredible Hunter pardon and the desperate attempts to explain it as somehow being a smart move. And not what it clearly is -- a trifecta of mendacity, hypocrisy and corruption.

>> I found that when I put too much attention on the mantra, I distanced myself from the reality of what was around me. Like, the person I was talking with, or nature, if I was out on a walk. I also observed that many RSSB devotees acted a lot like robots, lacking spontaneity, naturalness, social awareness. <<

You mentioned peripheral attention, in terms of being aware of children etc running all of a sudden onto the street etc.

How came you te learn driving?
First you were aware of all separate activities needed to drive a car. In those days there was restricted awareness, attention, consciousness of other things like conversing with a passenger, listening to radio, looking at the surroundings and daydreaming about the next blog to write.
Overtime all these activities were integrated in what you now call "driving" and THAT driving is executed but not by YOU ...YOU are doing other things and that "driving"is executed in the periphery of your consciousness ...I write it down in this way but with regard to what was written here.

Simran in the end has to be done in the same way ..UNFORTUNATELY many or most {western} satsangis never get to integrate the simran in the same way as they have done with, driving a car, bicycle etc. so they cannot set free THAT attention that is realy needed to meditate.,

As I wrote before there is very little instruction related to the practice of Sant Mat let alone proper guidance by an seasoned guide ....so that it opens that people can doe simran and meditate for decades in the wrong way.

Why there is so little detailed instruction and proper guidance I never understood ..I do have an idea ... but do not want to discuss it here ...

"Any meditation approach that doesn't combine the benefits of attention and awareness is like a bird trying to fly with one wing. Both are needed."


That's a lovely insight.

While that applies to theistic mantra/yantra meditation, but equally, I think that applies to Anapana and Vipassana meditation as well, if one focuses only on sitting (or for that matter walking) meditation.

The Vipassana tradition emphasizes the flying-with-one-wing aspect of focusing on Shamata meditation alone --- which is what mantra/yantra meditation does --- while leaving unaddressed insight meditation. But, it appears to me, and as you quote Yates/Culadasa as saying, the Shamata-plus-Insight combo, and even the sitting-plus-walking combo, is still in the flying-with-one-wing category, if one does not throw in everyday mindfulness practice into the mix as well.

In practice, at least as I've seen it done, everyday mindfulness practice isn't always emphasized, at least nowhere near as much as the Shamata-plus-Vipassana combo of sitting-walking meditation is. Doing which does let one take off and fly away, certainly --- unlike when it's a bird literally flapping just one wing --- but that flight probably isn't anywhere as soaring as it might be when you rigorously incorporate everyday mindfulness practice as well.


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Incidentally, I completely love and admire your love of books and learning, and particularly of continued assimilation of what you've learned. The first step towards which is to retain the books one has read, that one finds of particular worth --- which I do, as well. But obviously the all-important second step is to actually go ahead and do the re-reading and the assimilation, which I'm very very poor at following through with. Most of my books simply sit there on the bookshelf, waiting --- although I do seek them out and pick them up to check up particular things that sometimes come up, but even that last is now often taken care of, more easily and more lazily, by clicking through on Google and Google-directed references.

Your complete dedication to books and learning and understanding remains an inspiration, Brian.

I appreciate this pithy explanation: ‘Attention is the mind’s agent. Awareness pays no mind to any-thing, it simply receives’. I understand attention as being focused where the brain is actively processing information as when I am writing these words – yet at the same time there is an awareness of what is happening within my field of senses. Yet I am not consciously aware of background sounds; that is perhaps until one sound is unusual and immediately grabs my ‘attention’. So yes, awareness is not attention, and yes, awareness simply receives – only to become attention when something impinges on the senses.

With regard to meditation this latest blog of Brian’s makes good sense – e.g.: “It doesn't matter that your mind wandered. What's important is that you realized it.” It’s actually quite fun (in an interest-ed sort of way) to watch the attention leaping about. I’d reckon that as the ‘aha’ moment(s) arise more often, the relevance of all the words describing awareness, attention, consciousness (although necessary in some contexts) tend to fade away as more and more, what remains is simply the present moment.

Whenever the attention is drawn to the realisation of just being this present moment, even though the barrage of thoughts and sensations always come flooding back, a kind of knowing or feeling persists that allows a certain lightness in one’s approach to the ‘intrusions’.

@ Ron E.

I came to know about John Butler through one of the members of my family that was highly inspired by this man and stress ing .. being PRESENT

This is an interview with the man.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ewz-oF8cj4w

In the beginning, some years ago it was all simple, it was just him and his approach to meditation, but over time it has grown to an sophisticated movement. ...what seems to be the fate of all things that are brought in to the centre of attention.

Hi um. Yes, it seems to often be the way that people make an okay start in presenting their methods - and then, something slips or takes over and they lose the plot.

@ Ron E.

It is a strange thing ..over time I came to realize that what has left long lasting impression on me was the presence of people. What hooked me so to say in the beginning were their words but these days i realize that their words were just an excuse to be with them, to associate with them.

It reminds me of something I do attribute to the late MCS but it could be as well have another source ... one can write a whole library full of books about it, or just one book, one chapter, one sentence or even one word ...or ..be silent.

Some people are ..the EMBODIMENT of something and it doesn't matter whether they speak or remain silent.

In retrospect I must laugh about myself and realize how listening to and focusing on words pulls the attention in the wrong direction so to saqy ..fortunately the warmth of the sun is still felt even by him that has is eyes closed.

It has been my good fortune to have known and lived with several of these "embodiments" ...realizing that it is doubtful for some whether they were aware of it themselves.

And .. probably we cannot resonate with all of these people in the same way. There must be some common level of "recognition" in parties.

Sat sang ..the compagny of truth, ..the presence

Mindful meditation can be good just don't do mindless meditation like what Gurinder Singh Dhilion preaches at the Radha Soami school of nut jobs.

Repeating evil names 5 times for 3 hours a day can only get you to a hell not any paradise can it.

A cult based on deception and lies, is never a God's path

A organised cult operating for fulfillment of dollars and power is a way to a hell too

Do meditation and search for the One just not in such a hell hole religion as Gurinder Singh Dhilion and the Radha Soami Cult

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