Wow. My wife convinces me she's enlightened.

If you think I'm churchless and irreligious, you haven't met my wife, Laurel -- who is now surpassing me in skepticism about all things godly. 

She's even enlightening me about enlightenment. 

Driving home from central Oregon this afternoon, with plenty of time to converse during the two hour trip, Laurel said:

Why are so many people concerned about being enlightened? It's just about embracing reality. Which is right here, right now. So understanding there's no such thing as enlightenment, just reality, is true enlightenment. 

I couldn't add much to this bit of wisdom.

Mostly I just marveled at Laurel's evident enlightenment. Perhaps even more than me, she's come to understand that searching for an illusory SuperSized Consciousness is a recipe for wasting one's time.

Now, I realize that many people disagree with this. I would have disagreed with Laurel myself a decade or so ago, when I still believed it was possible to dissolve the illusion of everyday reality. 

Today, like my wife, I consider that the illusion is believing there is any illusion to dissolve. Sure, there's a lot to learn about the world -- both on a personal and communal level. 

But there's no convincing evidence that anything other than one's ordinary mind is needed to gain increased knowledge and understanding of what life is all about, a notion shared by John Gray in his new book, as I wrote about in my previous post.

I quoted Gray:

We do not know how matter came to dream our world into being: we do not know what, if anything, happens when the dream ends for us and we die. We yearn for a type of knowledge that would make us other than we are -- though what we would like to be, we cannot say. Why try to escape from yourself?

Accepting the fact of unknowing makes possible an inner freedom very different from that pursued by Gnostics. If you have this negative capability, you will not want a higher form of consciousness; your ordinary mind will give you all you need.

Today I came across a piece, "Alan Watts on What Reality Is and How to Become What You Are." Watts, of course, also was big on living an ordinary life without making it into anything other than what it naturally is.

The piece has a quote from Watts' book, Become What You Are.

Some time ago a group of people were sitting in a restaurant, and one of them asked the others to say what they meant by Reality. There was much vague discussion, much talk of metaphysics and psychology, but one of those present, when asked his opinion, simply shrugged his shoulders and pointed at the saltshaker.

He was amazed to find that no one understood him, yet he had intended to be neither clever nor obscure. His idea was just to give a commonsense answer to the question, on the ordinary assumption that Reality is whatever exists.

He was not understood because his friends, in common with many others, regarded Reality as a special kind of existence and Life (with a capital L) as a particular way of living. Thus we often meet those who talk about the difference between being a mere clod, a mere “animated stomach,” and a real person; between those who simply exist and those who really live.

Which is followed by another quote:

We have all met those who are trying very hard to be real persons, to give their lives Reality (or meaning) and to live as distinct from existing. These seekers are of many kinds, highbrow and lowbrow, ranging from students of arcane wisdom to the audiences of popular speakers on pep and personality, selling yourself and making your life a success.

I have never yet met anyone who tried to become a real person with success. The result of such attempts is invariably loss of personality, for there is an ancient paradox of the spiritual life whereby those who try to make themselves great become small.

The paradox is even a bit more complicated than this; it also means that if you try, indirectly, to make yourself great by making yourself small, you succeed only in remaining small. It is all a question of motive, of what you want. Motives may be subtly concealed, and we may not call the desire to be a real person the desire to be great; but that is just a matter of words.

Comments

[777]

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GOD ISN'T ENLIGHTENED !

That's for angels IQ 99; archangels IQ 999, Creative Powers 99999

GOD knows only LOVE

When i would say to put your pinkies together and it will happen, . . you wouldn't believe me, but do it anyway several times
but
when I say to the compassionates (VG is a must) to listen above your eyes
you don't find the time.

Just try it
They call it rhythmic and it is but very swow, more a pulse, like the heart,
but slower, like your breath but slower like a one minute or more cycle

and it's sweet and beautiful
Also whole nature goes in blossem and bloom
Difficult to explain - I tried before - like water becomes encopassin your are really THT to start with - same for nature - same for seemingly dead stones
Same for people , like y'r a beam of dracaena and people react or fanatically Non react
like immediately turning there back on you

Don't seek enlightenment
Seek your Soul which id just That tiny tiny sound
It isn't tiny but we made it tiny by comptent or non interest
It is your Soul

You don(t need a Master : this is already an "achievement"
Only when you want to have it roaring like a mega hurricane of sweetness , you might need some help
c q mega help

So, stop Brahma's enlightenment, awakenment game or trap
You deserve better

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[shrishti]

yeah.there is so much to learn.....well said ! nice thinking!

[Kathie Weston]

I am with Laurel.....great truth in ordinary life. The sunrise this morning exquisite...ordinary, simple life is the end of the 'seeking'. Being awake to what is humbles me as I remember all I did to 'become enlightened'. Feel utter gratitude.
Kathie

[777]

Could you please ask her :

If she could feel in Love as never before, . . .

would that be a nice alternative prospect . . . :-)

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[booger brinai]

There was no wow in this post. Brian is your writing pen getting dryer..

[Brian Hines]

Booger, I guess everybody has a different sense of "wow." I get enthused about reality, and speaking about reality. So does my wife. But if illusion is your thing, go for it.

[booger brinai]

Brian where you get the idea that i like illusion. Is making quick conclusions reality for you??

[Jen]

We are all consciousness, no need to search for it, but perhaps we need to evolve our own limited consciousness by being more aware.

I realise the title of your thread is 'tongue in cheek' but am wondering what kind of response you were trying to provoke? You did push my buttons! Especially as each person's version of reality will vary from quite idyllic to the opposite reality that people are now living through in the horrific conditions of war torn countries. It all sounds very cosy for you and your wife experiencing a good lifestyle and yes, I know you are probably very good citizens and do charitable works etc but is your 'really, real, reality' an enlightened state? Is just enjoying being in the moment in your own individualised reality all there is to it? A peaceful existence - for how long?

http://www.telesurtv.net/english/opinion/Why-the-US-is-the-Biggest-Threat-to-World-Peace-20150117-0024.html

[777]

or
If she would like to feel INVULNERABLE , . . .

would that be a cool alternative prospect . . . :-)

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